Not a loner, not a social butterfly.

When I was younger, I had friends, but I can’t say I was ever the most popular girl in school. I wasn’t cool enough for that. I certainly never felt alone or like everyone hated me. I didn’t and still don’t have the best self-confidence in the world, and I don’t make friends easily because I have a difficult time just walking up to a stranger and making small talk with them. The friends I have are people who initiated the conversation and started talking to me first. That was true in high school and college, and it’s true now.

Were you the social butterfly of your school days? Are you still that way at work or have you always been more on the introverted side?



  1. mylife4690 · October 1, 2017

    More on the introverted side


  2. I have always been on the Introverted side but sometimes I would initiate conversation


  3. Mia · October 1, 2017

    Introverted always.


  4. onthespotblog · October 1, 2017

    Reblogged this on rants all the way and commented:
    I wasn’t the campus’ princess or dork. I wasn’t the classroom president nor first honors. I wasn’t even a person and I still am. I wasn’t even i dreamt of rather a person that society made me. I’d even stutter talking to a friend and i would even slip with flats on. I could be called the dumbest thing ever in the world. I would even laugh at serious scenes. I would grab a teacher in her collar. I would even pass the test without answering. And lastly, I couldn’t even be me inside my own f***ing room.


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